Thursday, December 2, 2010

Define.

They say that our past is what defines us. But not entirely.

I say, our past makes us what we are today. Our mistakes are a lesson for us to never repeat them. To learn from them. Sure we made mistakes. Everyone makes them and that is why we're humans. We grow from our mistakes. Our mistakes urge us to do better. To be better than what we were when we did those things or said those things.

Our good deeds, they're a message to say that we do have greatness in us. And that we can do much better than the things we've done. Let your good deeds be a message to you, to not to falter from your path. To remind you, that you are capable of being better than making the mistake.

As they say, everything needs to be balances. Similarly, the right and the wrong needs to be balanced too. Too much of either can disturb the whole system. To find the right balance, to make it work for you, and to stick to that, takes a hell lot of courage, experience and will power.

So don't aim to be too good, or too bad. Find the perfect balance. And don't forget, mistakes are made by everyone. It is all in how you come out of it and face it.

Drug Jealous.

Jealousy?

According to the Webster dictionary,
Definition of JEALOUSY
1
: a jealous disposition, attitude, or feeling
2
: zealous vigilance .


So yeah.

When we we yearn for something, and we don't have it, but we see others who have it and feel dejected? Hurt? Simply put, we feel jealous.
What makes us jealous, varied from person to person. It may just be the simplest thing as a chocolate. Or the most complicated thing, money.Or it may even be a friend's happiness.

We often wonder, is feeling jealous right? Especially when it comes from our loved ones? No it isn't! But there's also another fact, we can't help it. Sure we can control it to some extent, but never completely. You know why, because we always want something other than what we have. It's human nature. And also because, nobody is perfect. =)

So instead of fighting it, and feeling bad about it. I'd say embrace it. To make yourself a better and a stronger person. And take jealousy as a medicine, not as a drug which leads to your destruction.

So human up friends, and keep it healthy.