"Move On". Isn't that what everyone hears everytime they're dumped? So what exactly does this mean? Forget the person and carry on with your life? Or just get hooked with someone else?
I'll tell you what I think is moving on now. It means to be able to ACCEPT. Accept the fact that the person you love, is no longer attracted to you. Or simply hates you. Because it's impossible to stop loving a person.The love remains. What goes away is the lust.
Contrary to what the world says, 98% of the relationships are the results of mistaken lust for love.The perfect relationship, is the simplest thing ever. Because it's based on love,with just the right amount of lust, your relationship will flourish. And if your relationship is based on lust, then your relationship is doomed from the start. Because once you love a person, it's with their wrong and rights, at their best and worst, and through thick and thin and no matter what happens, you'll make it through.
So,all the people stuck over their pasts, thinking that i can't be alive again because the love of my life is gone,let me tell you one thing. It's not! It's possible to fall in love twice. Or even thrice. Just don't stop believing. And if your relationship has failed, that's because the proportion of lust was unequal in the relationship. So, step up, pull up your socks, and take another chance.
4 comments:
:D You're writing well darling! And this is so freaking true. It's exactly where I went wrong you know?
Thanks. :)
And I know. I made the mistake too.
Aarzu, this one is so true. Not many people agree the love-lust connection, and yes, I neeeded to read this to know that am not the only one thinking this. :)
Keep up the good work! ^_^
This one is very well written. Spoken like a true prodigy.
Keep it up.
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